For Black Gen Z, kink is no longer a whispered sidebar in dating. It is starting to feel like basic math.
BLK, the #1 dating app for Black singles in the US and UK, released new findings from its Curiosity, Kink + Connection Report, an anonymous quantitative survey of 4,000 BLK users across the United States and United Kingdom. The data signals a clear cultural shift. Kink is no longer treated as taboo or “extra.” It is treated as useful information.
In a dating era shaped by burnout and mixed signals, respondents showed a strong preference for clarity. Rather than guessing or easing into conversations later, many are choosing to name desire early to get to real alignment faster. At the same time, the results challenge the idea that sexual openness equals carelessness. Across both markets, exploration was consistently tied to consent, trust, communication, and boundaries. In 2026, pleasure and responsibility are not opposites for Black Gen Z. They are connected.
More than half of US respondents said outright that they consider themselves someone with a fetish or kink interest, compared to 42.3% in the UK. That confidence reflects a shift away from long-standing pressure to appear “good” or “safe” while dating. The focus is moving from performance to honesty, with desire framed as part of knowing yourself, not something to hide.
The US and UK comparison adds another layer. US respondents were more likely to claim the label, while UK respondents showed a slightly stronger “in-progress” posture, with 14.3% identifying as still exploring compared to 11.0% in the US. That suggests confidence may be building more privately in the UK before becoming public.
Curiosity itself was widespread and intentional. Nearly six in ten respondents said they are open to exploring new fetishes, with 57.9% in the US and 59.6% in the UK. Roleplay ranked as the top interest in both markets, pointing to imagination, play, and release rather than risk.
When it comes to dating, openness is becoming a compatibility factor. A combined 86.1% of US respondents and 80.6% of UK respondents said they are open to dating someone with a kink in some form. Most also reported comfort discussing these interests early on.
At the center of it all, the values were clear. Mutual consent, trust, and clear communication ranked highest across both markets. The message is direct. Black Gen Z is raising the standard and refusing to choose between safety and spark.
About the Author
